Mistake of the past can't hold you

Mistake of the past The most difficult stage to make decisions is youthful stage. Young people are full of energy and are very ambitious. In most cases they made either major right decision which will have positive influence on their life or wrong decision which will hamper their future progress. Youthful stage is very exciting and confusing. At this stage, life is full of promising choices and almost every road looks so bright. Peer pressure becomes so heavy on us. We want to like someone else because he is popular or dress nice etc. Here, one will have to take some major decisions that will either impact your life positively or negatively. Therefore one need more guidance and proper direction to make right decisions. Decisions have to be consciously made and guidance become very crucial. There is an African proverb which say “the fly that does not listen to advice will be buried with a coffin”. One need to learn to listen to proper advice otherwise the future will be very dim. Life is all about decision making. We decide on what we want to eat, drink, who we love to associate with, what music to listen to and what field of study or line of business to take. As our ages advance, the challenge of decision making becomes even more. Who you want to marry, how many children to have, what type of house to buy, which town to live in and what type of family business to embark on. This is a clear indication that we have more opportunities to make decision that affect our life either way. Its undeniable that situation we find ourselves in and the environment have influence on our decision making but we have entire control over the decision. It’s up to us to decide what type of decision to make. The weight of our decision despite the circumstances far outweigh the circumstances. Hence wherever we find ourselves today, no doubt is the results of the decision we made yesterday.